Leftist commentary from a mouthy bitch


If you have ever said, in response to the abortion debate, “She could just give up the baby,” READ THIS NOW: http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2009/03/breaking-silence-on-living-pro-lifers.html#disqus_thread

This is the story of a birth mother. No she doesn’t speak for all birth mothers, but judging by the comments by other birth mothers in the comments, she speaks for an awful lot of them.

I long maintained that if I got pregnant, I would abort. I meant it. I never understood how anyone thought I, who sobbed uncontrollably when giving away kittens I’d bottle-raised, could possibly carry a life inside me for nine months and then just give it away. I was also smart enough to know that I am unsuited to parenthood. I can barely deal with disciplining my cats, kids…? No.

If you have ever believed that pro-life bullshit about how damaging abortion is to a woman, without ever thinking about how terrible adoption might be for the birth mother, READ IT NOW.

I’m just going to shut up now, I can’t really do it justice. Just, go read it.

X-posted at Sirriamnis.

2 comments on “If…

  1. staxxy
    March 18, 2009

    Sometimes it seems like the only acceptable choice we have is when to become a mother, not if. This. This is why it took me over 6 months to get my hysterectomy and I had to see a PSYCHIATRIST to get it EVEN THOUGH I HAD CANCER.
    yeah. I am full of hate for the “women only exist to make babies. their whole existence is justified by having babies. Without having babies, women are NOTHING” attitudes.


  2. javagoth
    March 18, 2009

    I have to be brief – I really should be in bed.
    I have spent considerable time thinking about whether or not I wanted to be a parent or if I would be a good parent. I am pro-choice but I have done what I can to not have to get to that choice and I know I have been very fortunate at times not to have had to make that choice (long story – marriage stuff). I even spent some time considering if I could be a surrogate mother for my middle older sister who can’t have kids (not that she asked but I considered offering when I saw how hard it was on my brother-in-law and his wife to want so much to have kids and not be able to for so long). I came to the conclusion that it would tear me apart to give the child away – no matter how unsuitable I believe myself to be. Hell – I have not had a pet for over 13 years now because I had to give the ones I had away when we got only 20 days notice to move. It hurt that much. How much more so if it was a child I carried?
    Thanks for posting the link.


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